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The Ethics of Social Media in the Service of Process

The Ethics of Social Media in the Service of Process

By Roland Process Service & Investigations Staff
Published on 12-1-2025

This month we’re exploring the digital frontier. We know that in the world of legal support, the "gold standard" has always been the hand-off—a process server looking a defendant in the eye and handing over the papers. But what happens when the defendant is a "ghost"? No physical address, no workplace, and an uncanny ability to dodge every knock on the door.

Enter the "digital knock." At Roland Process Service and Investigations (RPS&I), we are increasingly asked: Can we just serve them on Facebook? The answer is a classic legal "maybe." While platforms like LinkedIn, Facebook, and even X (formerly Twitter) are becoming the new frontier for service, they come with a complex set of ethical hurdles and legal hoops.

The Shift Toward Virtual Service

For decades, if you couldn't find someone, "Service by Publication" (placing an ad in a local newspaper) was the backup plan. But let's be honest: when was the last time you scoured the legal notices in a physical newspaper?

Courts are starting to agree. In several landmark cases, judges have ruled that a Facebook private message or a LinkedIn InMail is actually more likely to provide actual notice than a dusty newspaper ad. However, this is not a shortcut; it is a "method of last resort."

The 3 Pillars of Ethical Social Media Service

Before a judge in Colorado (or most other states) will even consider allowing social media service, we have to prove three things:

  1. The "Diligent Effort" Standard

    You can't jump to Instagram just because you’re tired of driving to a defendant's house. At RPS&I, we must document exhaustive attempts at traditional service first. This includes:

    • Skip tracing to find current addresses.
    • Multiple physical stakeouts at different times of day.
    • Interrogating neighbors or known associates.
  2. The Identity Hurdle (Authenticity)

    This is the biggest ethical pitfall. How do we know @JohnDoe123 is actually the real John Doe?

    • Proof of Ownership: We look for unique identifiers—photos of the defendant, specific biographical details, or recent posts that prove they are the sole user of that account.
    • The "Blue Check" Reality: Even a verified badge isn't always enough. We often have to prove the account has been active recently.
  3. The "Communication" Trap

    Ethically, process servers and attorneys must avoid pretexting.

    Warning: Sending a "friend request" under a fake name to get past privacy settings is a massive no-no. It can lead to evidence being tossed out and ethical sanctions for the legal team.

Platform-Specific Challenges

Platform Pros Cons
Facebook High daily active use; "Seen" receipts can prove receipt. High volume of "ghost" or abandoned accounts.
LinkedIn Professional verification; work history confirms identity. Strict privacy settings; notification of "profile views" can tip off the defendant.
X (Twitter) Good for serving corporations or public figures. Hard to prove the account holder is the one actually reading the DM.

The Future: Substituted Service 2.0

As we move toward 2026, the legal industry is watching for clearer "e-service" statutes. Currently, social media service is usually classified under Substituted Service (like Colorado Rule 4), meaning you need a specific court order for every single case.

At RPS&I, we don't just "hit send." We build a digital trail of evidence that ensures your service stands up to the scrutiny of a judge. We believe the ethics of our industry demand that we embrace new technology without sacrificing the integrity of the law.